Category Archives: Islam

Ramadan Mubarak [2014]

Wishing you all a wonderful Ramadan with family and loved ones.

Remember, Kuwait is an Islamic country and eating, drinking, chewing gum, or public displays of affection could result in a month in jail, a 100 KD fine, or both. Be respectful of the law and those who are fasting.

We’ll be celebrating the Holy month in America and I’m already looking forward to preparing fu6oor for my wonderful husband 5 days a week (we’ll be eating out the other 2 days). We just had a fabulous graish together while discussing some things we plan to focus on this month. I’m so blessed to be spending my life with one of the kindest, most compassionate, generous, empathetic people I know.

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Ramadan is coming! [2014]

Every year around this time I get super excited about Ramadan. I always love the preparations; having dara’a made (loving the Emirati ones this year), preparing the menu, reviewing fasting times, and shopping for necessities. Ramadan is also the time of year when families gather more often than just Fridays. I miss that! Though a handful of locals may vacation during Ramadan, the more devout, family oriented will opt to stay in the country and embrace Ramadan on every level.

My husband and I will be in America for Ramadan this year but we’re already starting to prepare and review our upcoming schedules to ensure we make the most of the month. It’s always a special time of year for us — regardless of where we are. Though there’s absolutely no sign of Ramadan here in America, we’ve decided we’re actually going to seek out some gatherings and events this year. Should be interesting.

I’ve always felt that we should be the best people we can be the entire year, not just 30 days of it. But Ramadan is a time when we’re more conscientious of our actions and have the opportunity to develop new, more positive habits. We all have room for growth. As Iv’e said many times before, it’s almost a month of meditation for me… and it’s nice.

Saudi women staging grass roots movement to drive

I am incredibly late at getting this and several other things posted.  However, this is such an important topic and I definitely wanted to share this before the day ended.

Below you’ll find a beautiful statement by Rotana as well as her cover song ‘Team’.

Wishing the women of Saudi Arabia all the best!

“I have recently been so moved by the brave Saudi women of my generation, and the generation of women that laid the foundation before us. As an admitted ex-cynic when it came to issues of women’s rights in our country, you have showed me what it is to try, try again, try harder, try again, and never stop trying. No matter what. 

I recorded my version of the song “Team” by Lorde with tailored lyrics in solidarity with the cause of women’s right to drive. But to me, this song is bigger than that. It is a salute to any woman brave enough to stand up for her right and follow her dreams despite cultural barriers, and a nudge to all those who are on their way. 

To all the women living through their authentic self, and scratching the surface for others, thank you. You have inspired me to follow my dream. I sing for you. I salute you. 

On October 26, and every day. I hope we all drive, dream and stand up. We are on each other’s team!”

The Liberal Muslim

I’m not one to blog about religion, nor am I one to incite a religious debate. I have no interest in being attacked or attacking anyone else for their beliefs… regardless of their religion.

I’m quite open about my ‘liberal’ standpoint on pretty much everything in life. It’s all very simple to me; as long as you’re not hurting another person or animal, then do as you please. It’s not my place to judge.

Some would argue my point of view by stating there are certain things which are a ‘sin’, such as homosexuality. My own religious beliefs were even questioned by a random stranger when I posted the Macklemore ‘Same Love’ video during Ramadan. Their judgment reminded me of a time I asked a friend what they would do if one of their close friends got addicted to drugs or alcohol. Their response was shocking, “Never speak to them again. Never allow them to come near me. Ignore them and tell other people to do the same”. Wow, how is that considered religious behavior?!

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It’s my belief that it’s not our place to judge. And no matter what religion you practice (or if you’re an Atheist) none of us have the right to point fingers at someone else’s behavior. Isn’t it our place to encourage those who are struggling? And give a helping hand to those in need? Since when does tolerance translate to being ‘bad’? And since when does hate and degradation imply the finger pointer is the ‘better’ religious person? Isn’t that all so backwards?

At the end of the day I believe it’s important we all be comfortable in our own skin. After all, there’s never gonna be another ‘you’. We should fully embrace our existence, flaws and all. Because isn’t it really our differences that make us so perfect anyway?

Finally, attacking someone for their lifestyle, gender, age, weight, physical appearance, etc. is really just bullying. And didn’t we all know better than that by age 6?

Ramadan 2013 — American Style

Wishing all of my readers around the world a wonderful Ramadan!

This will be the first year in a very long time that I’ve spent Ramadan in America, and the first time for my husband. It’s odd. Definitely odd. There’s not an entire country running around making huge preparations and discussing the upcoming month. Nor are people reminding one another of the days to come. No one is asking anyone if they’re fasting or judging those who aren’t. Not one sign or indication Ramadan is upon us. Kinda like Christmas in Kuwait. And though a part of me misses all the hoopla surrounding Ramadan, it’s almost refreshing to be away from it all. It’s a religious holiday and to me religion should be personal. Everyone has their own level of practicing their religion, some not at all. In the end it’s their choice and not one to be judged by others.

Photo Credit: My husband

For me Ramadan is significant because it acts as a gentle reminder to improve on areas I’ve maybe been neglecting. I like to use the month to reflect, review, and change in positive ways. Almost like a month of meditation. I would like to believe I live this way daily but I know better.

‘Optimistic’

Lately, when I find myself slumping off into the land of stress, I whisper gentle reminders in my head about how wonderful life is as long as we remain optimistic. So much really depends on our attitude, how we handle issues, and on what level we learn to overcome… or even embrace challenges.

Moreover, I’m surrounded by positive people. I’m truly blessed to have family, friends, and even strangers who support me and love me unconditionally. I only hope I provide them the same level of comfort. Their greatness is so very genuine and they exude such compassion in all areas of their life. I can honestly say the group of people in my life are those I admire. I can only strive to be as wonderful as them one day.

On the rare occasions I encounter someone judgmental, negative, or critical, I try to focus on why they must be this way. I’m slowly learning not to take it personally, but instead to understand those behaviors are caused by a deep unhappiness. When I’m capable of seeing them in that light it’s far easier to show respect and compassion as I know a part of them is truly suffering. No one can really like being negative and critical… can they?

I won’t apologize for being happy, nor will I be judged for it. We all deserve to be in a good place and with the right attitude we can be. If I had the power to bring peace and happiness to everyone’s life, it would be my honor. But since sprinkling magic fairy dust isn’t a reality, I can only hope to bring the occasional smile to the faces of those I love so dearly.

Ramadan

Wishing all of my readers and everyone around the world a wonderful Ramadan this year.

I personally like to use this time of year to reflect on who I am, my previous experiences, and what I can do to make better choices from this point forward. I believe our religion is carried in our hearts and our behavior, in every aspect of life, reflects this.

For those non-Muslims living in Kuwait, please observe the law and respect those who are fasting. Eating, drinking, smoking, chewing gum (in public), and public displays of affection can result in legal action. Please be aware of your actions at all times when in public during this holy month of Ramadan.

Image source: My wonderfully talented husband.

Ramadan On July 20

KUWAIT CITY, July 12, (KUNA): Astronomical calculations indicate that the holy month of Ramadan will most likely start in Kuwait next Friday, July 20, Meteorologist Dr Saleh Al-Ujairi said Thursday.

Al-Ujairi pointed out that the new crescent will be observed next Thursday.

While the crescent would only be visible for one minute in Kuwait, other countries will be able to witness the new crescent for up to 18 minutes.

Al-Ujairi added other countries will be able to witness the crescent in one night for a period of 32 to 47 minutes, adding that this year’s Ramadan would complete 30 days.

The Kuwaiti meteorologist noted that people will be able to see the new crescent on first day of fasting with naked eye for a period of 41 minutes.

Al-Ujairi said that the period of fasting on the first day will be 15 hours and 18 minutes, gradually decreasing to 14 and 33 minutes by the end of the month.

The holy month of Ramadan is a month of fasting for Muslims across the world.

The beginning of the fast is announced upon the actual sighting of the crescent, and not based on lunar calculations only. It is a month of great boon in the Islamic faith, and fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam.

Easter At The Mosque: Sacramento Muslims Lend Space To Churchless Christian Congregation

Absolutely fantastic! It’s always so nice to hear about people who really practice their religion — no matter what their belief.

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Hundreds of worshippers in Sacramento, Calif., were able to celebrate Easter together this Sunday thanks to a local Muslim organization that let the Christians hold services in their mosque, the Sacramento Bee reports.

For the past 12 years, members of the Spiritual Life Center of Sacramento had rented out space at the Pioneer Christian Church, according to the paper. But when their lease expired on March 31, the 500-member church was left with little time to find somewhere else to hold their Easter Sunday service, which is traditionally the best-attended of the year.

Reverend Michael Moran told reporters he had tried desperately to find a temporary meeting space before the solution came to him in a dream.

“We were desperately looking for a place to hold our Easter services. I had a dream and in the dream I saw a newspaper headline that read, ‘Easter at the Mosque’,” Moran told KXTV. “But when I awoke, I said that will never happen.”

Putting his doubts aside, Moran called Dr. Metwalli Amer of the Sacramento Area League of Associated Muslims (SALAM) to ask for permission to use the SALAM Community Center.

The Islamic Center had never allowed non-Muslim church to worship inside the mosque, but after consulting with SALAM’s board of trustees, Amer decided to let the congregants use the center’s community hall for services, according to CBS Sacramento.

“This represents the true peaceful essence of the religion of Islam,” Amer told Islamophobia Today. “I am an advocate of interfaith work.”

The plans were not without controversy, however. Michael Tate, a member of New Season Christian Workshop Center in Elk Grove, told KCRA 3 News he believes the event was deceptive by leading people to believe the Quran is consistent with Christianity.

But objectors like Tate didn’t stop worshippers from flocking to services at the mosque. Members of SALAM Community Center said there was so much interest in attending Easter services at the mosque that they had to schedule two services, one at 8:30 a.m. and another at 11 a.m.

“I heard people are coming from the bay area — all over the place just to witness this one-of-a-kind event. And we’re just happy to be a part of it,” Adnan Syed, a spokesman for the mosque, told CBS Sacramento.

Reverend Moran told reporters that be believes the collaboration between the two religious communities was successful far beyond its original goal of helping the Spiritual Life Center congregants find a place to celebrate Easter.

“Our mission from the very beginning was to bring the different faith traditions together in cooperative efforts,” Moran told KXTV. “I love what the Dalai Lama said, he said, ‘Until there’s peace among the world’s religions, there will never be peace on earth. I think this is one of those steps towards peace.’”

Ramadan calendar teaches children about fasting, good deeds

I came across this article today and thought what a wonderful idea this is. I wish I had found it before so I could have shared it with everyone I know who has small children.

DUBAI: A Ramadan countdown calendar designed to help children learn about Islam has been launched by a UAE company.

The design is similar to that of an Advent calendar. There are 30 chocolate pieces concealed behind 30 numbered cardboard flaps – one to be opened at sunset on each day of the holy month.

The calendar is aimed at children aged 5 to 11 who are too young to fast all day, but the idea is that they earn the chocolate by fasting for a short time or doing a good deed.

The calendar has won the approval of the Sheikh Mohammed Centre for Cultural Understanding.

There are two versions, a mosque design with 30 blank inner windows so that parents can write messages for each day to determine how their children learn about Ramadan, and a camel design with suggestions for good deeds printed on each window.

The good deeds version suggests what kind act the child should perform the following day.

Youngsters can complete a colouring-in sheet to give to their parents as an Eid al Fitr present.

Full article here.

You can find more information about these calendars by visiting their site directly at www.ramadancalendars.me